In Thunderbird you request a return receipt in the Options of the message you are writing, and you decide how to answer other people’s requests in the privacy settings, under Return Receipts. A “read” flag can also be set by a phone app, a preview or the recipient marking the message, so it says little about real reading.
HawkOpen tracks only emails you send through it. It cannot look into anyone’s mailbox or server; it records image loads and clicks on your tracked emails and rates each event as an estimate.